When it comes to your finances, no one cares about your financial well being more than you, so it's important that you create a backup plan for yourself because life happens!
Below are a few tips:
Create a list of things to plan for
If you have a career or are a small business owner, you need to clearly understand your financial picture and prepare a plan for your future self. This means creating a list of things to plan for, like paying off debt, creating a spending plan, understanding all your bills and their due dates, funding your emergency fund, saving for retirement, owning a diversified portfolio of investments, creating multiple streams of income and putting aside money for the other things you want.
Make plans with your significant other...
If you are married or have a significant other, then you need to participate in your finances as a team. Discuss your budget and money goals and make financial decisions together. Understand where your money is going and how much money you have in savings and in investments.
If you are a stay at home mom, which in itself is a full time job, you need to be the CFO of the establishment that is your home. Be involved in all of your family financial decisions and make sure you clearly understand your family's financial picture. You can even take it upon yourself to manage your family's savings and investments or plan your household budget.
...but still have your own
Having joint accounts is great but I also believe in having your own personal savings accounts as well because as women, it is important for us to build our own sense of security and have 'our own' that we bring to the table. That being said, your personal accounts should not be secret. Remember, marriage and committed relationships thrive on openness and honesty.
Not everyone will agree with me on this and that's ok but look at it this way: In the event that something serious happens or your significant other makes a poor financial decision that causes serious losses to your money portfolio - wouldn't it be great if you could be the backup plan instead of there being no plan? In addition, lack of money should not be the reason you stay in a bad relationship that you know you need to get out of. Having a bit of money saved in your own personal accounts can make all the difference.
Being your own backup plan is taking your financial future (and that of your family) into your own hands and not sitting around waiting for anyone to improve your financial situation for you.
Bola Onada Sokunbi